Loving Yourself

Loving yourself is not always an easy thing to do simply because we think we are not "good enough" or we don't "deserve it". The truth is that everyone deserves a chance of happiness and love. I know that putting your heart out there after you are hurt is not always an easy thing (I speak from experience); because all the insecurities tend to creep up and so we close up because we don’t want to take a chance that might be the start of something special. All of this to say if an opportunity presents itself doesn't be afraid to take a chance because you never know what might come out of it. I'm so glad it did.

Living Life After Letting Go

Each day brings new opportunities to grow, new beauty to see, plans to do and goals to pursue and another step to realize our dreams, yet times do happen to fail us... and we start to ask so many questions. The beginning of a search is to find an answer and connect it one by one and its end might be unpredictable. Though life is full of surprises, many still don’t live with it.

In living with these uncertainties in life, we might tell that life is like a season…we may never know when it stays and when it would decide to leave us. The best thing is that life brings us surprises and excitements every single second that we live…But then as life goes on, there would be times when we stumble and realize that life is unfair. We then lose hope and feel tired of facing the consequences that’s yet to come, and forget that when we fall, we must move on. One of the sweetest parts of life is when we stumble, we see our friends willing to extend a hand, and we may then seek for their company, not knowing that we also need to decide for ourselves.

Losing someone we love is not an assurance that we’ll never get to live a normal life again. It’s just one of the ways God has given us to seek for our true identity. Maybe we would hate to find somebody new who we really love, because it would mean of losing them again…but we’re not fool to say that we’re always afraid to lose the one that we love. Somehow, somewhere we’ve got to choose, no matter if it is win or lose, for life is a gamble that we have to risk. Then we start to find answers to our questions. Some people say that only destiny shall take us to places in which our respective lives could start living at peace.

Love comes, love goes, but the pain that we feel inside cannot be easily healed. Somehow we know that a part of us hasn’t change. Since we lose the people that we treasured and loved the most. It’s like a strong tree that has passed a thousand seasons, we shed to its leaves in winter, to grow them back in spring .Life must go on, for life begins again when we take a stand whenever we stumble. We still have dreams and we believe that the fear of losing someone is what selfishness is.

Never end your lives if you lose someone and don’t be afraid to lose someone because after all that you’ve been through, it all comes down to you.